Monday, August 6, 2007

Friends Forever

On Sat night, after my work, I met up with my friends to have dinner. We didn't meet for a long time and I'm really happy we can meet up on that day. We talked a lot and shared our latest news together. At least, we knew what happen to each other recently.

From the chit chat, each of us also have our own problem, if we didn't tell, no one will know. I feel great to have this kind of sharing session. We give suggestion and try to find a way to help. I can feel that our friendship has go to the next level. We seldom talked about our personal problems, but on that night, we talk almost everything. That is a good sign.

I have one friend, got problem recently. He keeps all the probelms to himself for certain period of time and keeps thinking by his own. You can feel that he has problem as he acted quite strange. I tried to help but failed. Until one day, he talked to me and I gave some suggestions to him. He told me, after he talked to his friends about the problem, he feels better. While helping on his, I also tell him mine. He also helped and provided some good solution to me. I'm really appreciate. This is what friends are for, try to help each other while another has issue. :)

To me, if you have problems that you cannot solve, the best way is, find a friend to talk about. Sometimes, although you have already made the decision on that particular problem, it's still better for you to talk about it. At least, you can release a bit. If not, you will like a balloon, getting bigger and bigger, finally burst one day.

3 comments:

David said...

抱歉,英语很烂,所以写中文,希望你不会介意吧……

朋友有难,其实最需要的就是一双倾听的耳朵,将心里的烦恼说出来后,整个人也变得轻松多了,然后才会积极的想办法面对困境与难关……

朋友一生一起走,这些日子要好好珍惜哦……

yam9972 said...

Heart brokens, betrays,backsteppings happens everyday, true Friends are hard to find, if you are lucky enough to have real friends around you, God blessed you..

mei yi said...

you are lucky that you have friends who are supportive and trustworthy.
treasure those friends because friends like them are like Gold. Really hard to find d. :)

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